OK, after speaking more with Reece's ST, we decide not to even consider the special needs preschool. I called today and cancelled our appointment. Instead I called the preschool that I had signed Reece up for this past fall but cancelled, and asked them if there were any openings right now. She said they might have some openings within a week or so, and she took my information and will call me back if they have anything.
At least that's where we stand today! lol